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Thomas Richard Gray
October 21, 1939 ~ March 31, 2016 (age 76) 76 Years Old Light a Candle
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Message from Ken and Betsy Roering
April 23, 2016 3:29 PM
Dear Susan, Genny and Courtney,
We are very sorry to hear of Tom's death. We were in Columbia last week and friends remembered that we were once neighbors of yours and saved the obituary for us. Our favorite memory of Tom was when we got an old upright piano so our kids could begin lessons. Tom came over to "warm it up"! He was an amazing talent and so very enthusiastic. Such fun…don't think that old piano has ever sounded that joyful since!
You have our sympathy,
Ken and Betsy
We are very sorry to hear of Tom's death. We were in Columbia last week and friends remembered that we were once neighbors of yours and saved the obituary for us. Our favorite memory of Tom was when we got an old upright piano so our kids could begin lessons. Tom came over to "warm it up"! He was an amazing talent and so very enthusiastic. Such fun…don't think that old piano has ever sounded that joyful since!
You have our sympathy,
Ken and Betsy
Message from Dick Kaegel
April 13, 2016 12:08 PM
Tom, or "Bop-its" as Donnie Smith called him, was the life of every Sigma Nu party and was just generally the spark of every day around the chapter house. His energy, enthusiasm and good cheer were contagious. Those were great years and Tom was very much a part of them -- sports, singing, Savitar Frolics, even studying. From Campus Town races to the Coronado, Bop-its was in the middle of it all and made us all better men. God bless you, Susan, and your family. Tom, RIP.
Message from Sigma Nu Rho Chapter
April 9, 2016 12:35 PM
Rho Chapter sends condolences to Tom's family. Tom was a valuable contributor to Rho Chapter during his "Chapter Advisor" days in the 1960's. There have been over 1500 members through the Chapter House that he helped so much since then..
We are very sorry for your loss.
Ken Grist
Rho Chapter House Corporation
We are very sorry for your loss.
Ken Grist
Rho Chapter House Corporation
Message from Bill Manion
April 8, 2016 4:38 PM
From a member of the Savitar Owl Hoot gang of many years ago. A fine memory of a fine man with a good taste for a laugh.
A candle was lit by Rick and Judy Price
on April 8, 2016 8:41 AM
Message from Rick and Judy Price
April 8, 2016 8:39 AM
Judy and I will miss Tom and his ever bright smile whenever we would see him at Booches. He was a very special person who always made you feel as if you were the most important person in the crowd. Your family are in our thoughts and we know he will be sadly missed by all who knew him.
Message from Susan and Reese Groshong
April 6, 2016 4:12 PM
Thinking of you during this difficult time. We are so sorry for your loss.
Message from Marcia and Ted D. Ayres
April 6, 2016 9:42 AM
Susan and family:
Tom was a dear friend and colleague. His memory will live on as will his many contributions to the University of Missouri (and Channel 8) and Columbia. I am reminded of a float trip down the Gasconade River on a beautiful autumn day with Tom and other friends (and a few cold brews). Our love and condolence to all of you at this difficult time.
Tom was a dear friend and colleague. His memory will live on as will his many contributions to the University of Missouri (and Channel 8) and Columbia. I am reminded of a float trip down the Gasconade River on a beautiful autumn day with Tom and other friends (and a few cold brews). Our love and condolence to all of you at this difficult time.
Message from Brian Neuner
April 6, 2016 3:12 PM
Tom gave me my first big break when I was hired as KOMU-TV's Sports Director at age 22. He was a tremendous leader and was loved by the entire Channel 8 team. I miss hearing his voice saying the familiar "Hey babes" as we would pass in the hall. About a year ago, I was with our son having a burger at Booche's. Surprise, Tom was there playing snooker. I was happy to introduce him to Clayton and say, "I want you to meet the man who gave me my first full-time job." Thanks again Tom. Rest in peace.
An AZALEA PLANT was sent on April 6, 2016
With love and sympathy...we are so very sad that we cannot be there with you to celebrate the life of a very special man. Susan, We hope this plant can be added to your beautiful garden for a lasting memory. Love, Terry & Vicki
Message from Laura and David Loring
April 5, 2016 10:25 AM
our sympathies to Susan and her family. Tom was a great man and along with his wife a great neighbor to my mother for many years. we are glad we got to know him and he will be missed by all who were fortunate enough to have known him.
David Loring
David Loring
Message from Gary and Jean Zwonitzer
April 5, 2016 9:07 AM
Susan and family, so sorry for your loss of Tom. He was such a great guy and we are very happy that we had an opportunity to know him. Gary enjoyed the times they played golf together with Tom, Gerald Brouder and Jim Bunton.
Gary remembers when he talked to Tom about his upcoming retirement. He told Tom he could now spend more time at Booches. Tom replied "I don't think so".
He will be missed.
Gary remembers when he talked to Tom about his upcoming retirement. He told Tom he could now spend more time at Booches. Tom replied "I don't think so".
He will be missed.
Message from Bill and Shirley Gray
April 5, 2016 8:18 AM
May God bless and care for Susan, Genney and Courtney during this difficult time. Tom was a wonderful individual who will be missed by many. He lived life to the fullest. If anyone was a perfect brother he was it. I will miss him dearly in the days and years to come. But I have many of the great memories of our childhood together. There are so many stories tat could be told that it would take a long period of time to complete. Tom I loved you and was so proud to have you as a brother.
Your loving brother,
Bill
Your loving brother,
Bill
Message from Mary and Dan Hooley
April 4, 2016 1:44 PM
We are so sad to learn of Tom's passing. How fortunate for us to have Tom as a delightful neighbor for so many years. He was absolutely delightful, but has left us all with so many great memories. Our thoughts are with you.
-Mary and Dan Hooley
-Mary and Dan Hooley
Message from Jim Hale
April 4, 2016 9:01 AM
God Bless Tom and the Gray family. Tom was a fine man and a fine friend during our association as fellow students at the university, '59-'62.
Message from Sharon Stalcup Mendlick
April 3, 2016 6:56 PM
Wonderful written tribute to a fine human being, a fine man, hisband, father and relative. We are fortunate to have had Tom in our lives.
Message from Pat and Bill Pembertton
April 3, 2016 3:41 PM
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold Tom in your hearts. Our lives were certainly enriched by having him as a friend.
A candle was lit by Bill and Pat Pemberton
on April 3, 2016 3:35 PM
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